Wednesday, June 24, 2015

My Pregnancy...Third Trimester

My third trimester was pretty smooth.  I was going to the doctor every couple of weeks, and everything started getting real when I started going every week.  That didn't last long, though, because of Lincoln coming three weeks early.  I had a couple of showers during my third trimester (I will post pictures of those in separate posts because they were all so cute), my maternity pictures taken, and got Lincoln's room all set up and organized.  My husband did all of the big things, as far as setting up Lincoln's room.  He put together the crib and the dresser.  I did the organizing from all of the showers.  That was an accomplishment!  I really wasn't sure how I was going to do it, but I impressed myself.  I also missed a shower because it was scheduled the week that Lincoln actually arrived.  Lincoln's due date was September 15th, but he was actually born on August 25th.  My birthday is in August and my husband's birthday is in September.  I never imagined that Lincoln would actually be born in August.  I was pretty certain it would have been September.  I was also very content with being pregnant as long as Lincoln needed me to be.  I had no intentions of being induced.  If he wanted to come 2 weeks early, I was ok with that.  If he wanted to come two weeks late, I was ok with that too.  I think that's probably the reason that I went into labor early, because it didn't bother me one way or the other!  I knew that as long as he was in the oven, he was still baking and would only be healthier.  If I was miserable and wanted him to come early, I can almost guarantee that I would have been the one to deliver two weeks late.  Anyway, he was born in my birthday month!  It was a win-win either way, during my birthday month or my husband's.  Sorry babe! 
 
These next 4 photos are pictures I had taken at 32 weeks.  I measured small and I remember the photographer asking me if I was sure I was 32 weeks pregnant.  I wanted to have my maternity pictures taken earlier, rather than later.  It was a good thing, considering Lincoln came three weeks earlier than his due date.
I LOVED this maternity dress....I felt so fancy in it!  This is a Jessica Simpson dress.  When I went shopping for maternity clothes, I really had a hard time bringing myself to purchase this dress because, in my mind, it was so expensive.  My good friend, Rachael, was there and she helped push me into the purchase.  I am so glad she did because I have never regretted it.  Also, I didn't buy many clothes while pregnant, so I felt like I could justify getting it.  The most expensive items, added up over time, are probably the maternity bras.  I bought ones that I could use when nursing after Lincoln arrived.  My first few, I bought from Motherhood at the mall.  They weren't the most comfortable bras, but I wasn't aware until my husband bought me some from Soma.  Oh.my.goodness.  It was like night and day.  When I tried on the bras at Soma, I didn't want to take them off!  I would suggest you try Soma first if you ever purchase any.  They were running a special, so the price wasn't that bad. 

I also wore this dress during one of my baby showers.  I tried to get as much use out of it as possible (like I do most of my clothing anyway). 




 
This picture was taken the week before Lincoln was born.  This is probably where I felt the prettiest during my third trimester (other than my maternity pictures).  My friend Summer let me borrow this dress and it was so comfortable and pretty.  I wanted to get a bare belly shot at the end of my pregnancy (like I did at the beginning), but completely forgot about it.  And besides, Lincoln came three weeks early, so no wonder I forgot!

I think this picture was taken at the 4th of July event we had at my agency where I work.  The more I look at these pictures, the more I'm starting to miss being pregnant!  Shhh...don't tell my husband!

My mom and me at her home.
 
I remember people warning me about how hot the summer was going to be while pregnant.  It was just as hot here as it always is, and it didn't bother me.  Don't get me wrong, I was hot, but I wasn't miserable.  The times I felt the hottest were inside in the air conditioner.  It just didn't seem to be blowing cool enough!  Even at my home...I had the air on 65 at night!
 
Speaking of night, towards the end of my pregnancy, my nights starting getting a little more restless.  It wasn't bad, but I definitely woke up a lot to pee (and that was throughout my entire pregnancy), and I started having some discomfort in my back.  I laid on my sides while sleeping and I wanted so badly to just sleep on my back.  I think a recliner would have been beneficial for sleeping.  I wasn't in pain, but I definitely wasn't comfortable.  I also had charlie horses (leg cramps) a lot during my pregnancy.  I found out very early on that I couldn't wear heels during the day because I paid for it at night with leg cramps. 
 
The only other thing I have to say about my pregnancy is I tried to be as active as possible, and eat healthy.  I like to think I'm a healthy eater in general (although I am not on top of that right now), but I had my fair share of sweets while pregnant (and still today) too!  When I was pregnant, it was easy to think that not only was I feeding myself, but I was also nourishing my child.  What I ate, he ate.  Therefore, it was a no-brainer for me to eat good, healthy, clean food.  Don't get me wrong, I still ate some things that weren't good for me or the baby, but for the most part I tried to eat healthy.  I also tried to be as active as possible.  I went for walks and went swimming.  I wasn't aggressive with working out or anything, just active. 
 
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I enjoyed my pregnancy!  I am so grateful to have had a good one and thankful for the blessing that I received from it...my little Lincoln!
 
 
XOXO Jess

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

My Pregnancy....Second Trimester



Hello loves!  I have been wanting to post more frequently, but time has just been slipping away.  Life with a baby consumes everything, so I don't know how women maintain blogs on a daily basis, while working full time and taking care of the home and children.  Anyway, today I just wanted to share a little bit about my second trimester. 


 
 During my second trimester, things got much easier. I didn't have any nausea anymore. I have to say that my pregnancy was pretty great. I enjoyed it so much and was very happy carrying my sweet child.  I believe  (other than things beyond our control like sickness) that we make our pregnancies how we want them to be.  I chose to enjoy my pregnancy and be grateful for all of the things that came with it.

 
I still wore most of my regular clothes at this point in my pregnancy. Thank goodness I had plenty of loose fitting clothes. 

 
These bathroom pictures are from a conference that I went to out of state. We had to fly and I checked with my obgyn to make sure it was safe to do so beforehand.   I am a nervous flyer,  but tried my best to remain calm and relaxed as much as possible.



There's not a whole lot to say about my second trimester.  It's probably the best trimester because I was finally showing, so everyone knew I was pregnant (but not miserably big), and there was no more nausea.  Also, during the second trimester, I found out what the gender of my baby was....so that was pretty exciting. 


In the photo above, I am wearing maternity shorts.  Again, I didn't buy much in the maternity section, but there came a point where I had to invest in some staple pieces.  I bought a pair of white shorts, skinny jeans, and these jean shorts.  I loved these jean shorts!  So much so, that I recently realized that I don't have any comparable jean shorts for my normal weight!
 
XOXO Jess

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

My Pregnancy...First Trimester

Hello loves!  As mentioned before, I wanted to devote some posts to my pregnancy and I'm starting with my first trimester.  Before we became pregnant, my husband and I had been trying to conceive for a couple of years.  When I say trying to conceive, we were just hoping it would happen.  But it didn't.  This can make a girl go crazy.  Things kept going through my mind and I kept wondering if there was something wrong with me.  I wondered why it was so easy for some to get pregnant, but so difficult for me because everyone else made getting pregnant look so easy.  I decided to go to the OB/GYN to get some expert advice.  He put me on a plan to try to conceive and this plan consisted of trying to conceive on certain days of the month.  We went according to plan for 3 months (well, sorta according to plan...more difficult than we thought it would be :)), and I went back to the doctor at the end of the 3 months (which was in January).  When I went in, we assumed I wasn't pregnant and he told me that he wasn't concerned about whether or not we could conceive, saying that this could take up to a year.  After a year, we would talk about other options.  I left the doctor's office.  That same week, on Thursday, I took a pregnancy test...and guess what...it was positive!  If only he had done a test on me when I went in on the previous Monday.  I made an appointment to go back in the next week to start my pregnancy journey.  On January 9, 2014, my life changed drastically...it was the day I found out I was pregnant!  I was at work and had not gotten my normal monthly sign that I wasn't pregnant, so I took a pregnancy test when I got home.  When it showed those two lines, I was so excited..and shocked.  You never really believe it's going to happen, until it does.  I immediately got into my car and drove to my husband's work.  I told him I was in the area, stopped by to see him, and wanted him to meet me at my car.  When I saw him, I asked him, "How would you like to be a Daddy?".  He smiled really big and said, "You're pregnant!".  I said yes and we hugged.  He told me he was happy and nervous.  That night, we visited each of our parent's homes to tell them the good news.  Everyone was so excited!  We kept it to close family until about 3 months, when we announced it on Facebook.  You know that everything has to be announced on Facebook, or it's not official!
 
During my first trimester, I felt like I had a 24 hour hangover.  I didn't, and trust me, the doctor asked to make sure!  I was miserable because I hate being naseaus.  It was literally about 12 or 13 weeks when my nausea tapered off.  I was also very hungry.  I mean, so.very.hungry!  I ate so much and couldn't get enough.  I could not stand the smell of garlic and chicken cooking together, which my husband was not happy about, because that meant we didn't have garlic chicken soup the entire time I was pregnant!  I also wasn't a fan of these scented trash bags that we had.  We had to buy unscented trash bags just for that reason.  I would like to note that my husband is happy now that we can have garlic chicken soup again (which was a slow process even after I had the baby), and we are using the trash bags that I couldn't use during pregnancy.  I am frugile and will not throw useful items away, ha. 
 
My first ultrasound was somewhere around 8 weeks.  It was the very first emotional moment I had with my child.  My mother and mother-in-law went with me, since my husband was out of town working.  It was nice to have them in the room with me to experience such a sweet moment.  When I heard my baby's heartbeat for the first time, I immediately started crying.  These were excited, happy tears.  There's just something about hearing your baby's heartbeat when he's inside the womb.  It's reassuring and comforting at the same time.  We captured the moment on video, which I am so happy about. 
In the above photo, I was really early in my pregnancy, but late enough to finally have a bump!  Maxi dresses were my best friends during pregnancy.  I could wear my normal maxi dresses almost the entire time.  And they were so comfy.  I didn't buy many clothes during my pregnancy.  I think I have been trying to make up for that this year....:-/

 

At a training for work.  This dress didn't last very long in my pregnancy because it was snug around the mid-section. 


My Daddy, Me, and My Husband after church one Sunday.  This is a church that I grew up in and it has the most beautiful trees and landscaping of any church I know. 

So, that was my first trimester.  Next, I will post how things went during my second trimester.  Enjoy!

XOXO Jess










Monday, March 2, 2015

It's March!

This is my happy face!  Because it's March!  Y'all, let me tell you, I do not like winter.  I am a warm weather gal up and down.  I try to be optimistic during the winter time, but I still can't wait for it to be over.  I will have to admit, though, that this year has been much easier since I have my sweet punkin to spend the cold days with.  And it has been cold.  Can we talk about that?  I love it when we have warmer cold days here in the South, but I feel like this winter has been especially cold.  Maybe it's just me.  Not sure.  And speaking of this being my happy face, it's my happy, pale face.  I can't wait to soak up some rays and get a little bit of tan.  I used to tan all the time...I'm talking tanning bed tanning.  I stopped doing the tanning bed in my early 20s.  The past few years I even stopped tanning on the beach.  I use 50 SPF.  I finally decided (and maybe my health promotion degree had a little to do with it) that it wasn't worth dying early for because of skin cancer.  That being said, I do think that being in the sun and being outside is good for the soul.  It makes me feel better and makes me happy.  So I will still continue using sunscreen, and hope for a little sun-kissed skin too!
 
 
How cute is this sweet little boy?!?  This was a couple of weeks ago and I had to take a picture to send my friend Kim because she got this outfit for him.  It fits him so nicely.  He's been under the weather lately and it breaks my heart.  I can't stand to see him sick, although he is a good sport about it.  He is such a happy, sweet baby.  And I'm not just saying that because he is mine. 
 
In the weeks coming, I'm going to be doing quite a few pregnancy posts.  I want to give you all some insight into how my pregnancy was and do some shower and nursery posts.  Hope y'all have a great day and Happy March!!
 
XOXO Jess 

Monday, February 16, 2015

A lot has happened....

Hello friends!  It has been over a year since my last post and it's because a lot has happened since then.  In January of last year, I found out I was pregnant!  I had no intentions of quitting my blog, but I didn't feel that great during my first trimester.  Because of that, I had no interest in taking blog pictures and kinda felt too tired to be doing blog updates all the time.   

 Then life happened.  I was consumed by my pregnancy,  with gender reveal parties, maternity pictures, baby showers,  etc.  I still desired to update my blog, but I just didn't have the time to spend on it like I did before.   And that makes me laugh because if I thought I  didn't have the time while I was pregnant,  I definitely don't have the time now that my sweet baby is here.  So, on August 25th, my sweet boy made his appearance!  Let me tell you, there is no love like the love I have for my child.  Words can never express.  What's kinda crazy is that he is almost 6 months old!  That is a big milestone for us.



 I've been thinking about blogging again and plan to make some changes to my blog.  First off, my posts aren't going to be just about fashion anymore.  Which means I probably should change the name.  It's going to be about a lot of things in my life....my baby, family, life experiences, friends and fashion.  Also, I don't have any desire to spend the time on editing photos like I did before.  Therefore, you're going to get real life, take me as I am, pictures and blog posts.  This kind of excites me.  I feel like when I was blogging before, I got consumed with following all these other bloggers, trying to make my blog big, etc.  I don't want that anymore.  If you like my blog, great!  I'm grateful you are here and happy to provide some reading material!!  I am no longer going to be concerned about my number of followers though and am happy with my numbers now.
Anyway, I think this is enough for today and I hope you enjoy my new blogging journey!!


XOXO Jess

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Happy New Year!

Good Morning Loves and Happy New Year!  I am just getting back into the swing of things with blogging.  I took a little break with the holidays and also getting back on track with work.  Here is a quick look that I captured recently.  I love this pink blouse from J.Crew Factory and re-work it all of the time.  I love transitioning pieces for different seasons.  How do you transition some of your bright clothes? 
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You can see where I wore this blouse to work last spring Here
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Blouse: J.Crew Factory Similar
Jeans: LOFT Here
Cardigan: Express Here
Scarf: Charlotte Russe Similar
Bag: Kate Spade Similar
Boots: Steve Madden Similar
Watch: Fossil Similar
 
XOXO Jess
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

A Year in Review-My Favorite Looks for 2013

Good Morning Loves!  Since today is the last day of the year, I thought I would pick my favorite looks for 2013.  I have learned a lot over this year of blogging.  Being very new, I look back and see that I have learned to take better pictures and to make sure the sun is in my face and not behind me.  I have also learned that I don't have to put every picture up that I take, and that a lot of them weren't as good as I thought.  LOL...how tastes change over a year.  I have learned that you can see more detail the larger the picture....so those important accessories can be seen better.  I have also learned that quality is better than quantity. So, here is to a new year with an even better blog....I hope that this coming year is even better than the last!

                    










 




















XOXO Jess